Not getting want you want? Move away from Blame & Victim

  I recently found myself acting as a victim and I definitely had someone to blame. This person wasn't treating me right. They weren't treating me way I wanted to be treated and I deserved to be treated right. As a result of being treated, in my mind, so wrongly, I made a decision.  I wasn't going to continue the relationship. Why should I stick around when I wasn't being treated right? While I was stewing over this and using my energy to build my case against this other person a saying popped in to my head. It is a saying that I share with participants in my seminars. It goes like this: We teach people how to treat us. Thinking about that saying caused me to pause, reflect and then…
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