Not getting want you want? Move away from Blame & Victim

  I recently found myself acting as a victim and I definitely had someone to blame. This person wasn’t treating me right. They weren’t treating me way I wanted to be treated and I deserved to be treated right. As a result of being treated, in my mind,...

Make It Happen

Make Your Goals and Dreams Happen In our workshops we take the time to have participants write down a goal and a dream. We define a goal as a “what by when” with these attributes: Specific Measurable Time limited We define a Dream as something you envision...
Ignite Your Passion

Ignite Your Passion

In a recent coaching session a client shared with me her passion, it was something that she’d love to be doing. Yet she wasn’t taking the steps to pursue that passion. She said some day she would when she had the time. I challenged her. What if wasn’t because of time...

Digging Deeper Into I’m Sorry

During a recent conversation with my wife, Mara, I began to notice that it getting tense. As we continued talking I had a sense that for some reason she was angry with me. We’ve been married for twenty-five years so I’ve gotten pretty good at knowing when something is...

How Are You Being Treated?

Do you get treated the way you want to be treated? You can. If you’re willing to teach people how to treat you. Do you realize that you are constantly letting people know how you want to be treated? When we speak up when something does not feel good to us we are...